The Stranger
On Sunday night I met with a bunch of triathletes from the area at a local eatery. I had been planning on going to their monthly social since March. It would be a great opportunity to meet other triathletes, ask questions, find support, etc. March came and went without going to the social. In April I was excited to be able to go since it was the day after my first (and to date only) triathlon. I could go as one of them, a triathlete. But Sunday evening rolled around and I didn’t go. May came and went with the same determination to go and the same holding back. So the other night I was convinced I needed to be there. I had been looking forward to this for months, I wanted to meet these folks, but about 4:00 in the afternoon I started hesitating again. Now most of you would not characterize me as a shy person, or one who is bashful, but that is exactly what was happening. I was afraid. What was I afraid of? Acceptance. I would be in the midst of athletes with great accomplishments, people who had trained for years, who run dozens of miles a week, bike hundreds and swim for hours and hours. What would they think of me? I’m not really one of them. I was afraid? But I mustered up the courage (actually I asked God for it so I can’t take the credit) and went, and I found a welcoming group of people that wanted to know how I got interested in the very thing they love to do. I wasn’t judged, I was accepted.
I wonder how many people feel the way I did when they want to start coming to a church. I ask you to think about that one a bit. Do people feel they won’t measure up to God, or do they just feel they won’t measure up to us? Do they worry about being judged? Do they worry about being accepted for who they are and where they are at?
This group of triathletes known as the Peoria Triathlon Club were warm and friendly and very welcoming to me. Did I still feel a bit out of my element, sure, but not because of the people there, they did everything possible to make me feel at home among them, offering helpful pointers on an upcoming race in Canton and inviting me to bring Cathy to the next social.
Thank you to the Peoria Trithlon Club for making me feel welcome.